
Valentine's Day is one of my favorite holidays. Who doesn't love celebrating love? And there's something even more special and nostalgic about a vintage Valentine's Day. And if you know me, you know I love the WWII era. So we're going to dive into how you can recreate a vintage 1940's Valentine's Day with your sweetie. And if you're like many of the women back then (and me right now) who have to celebrate alone while their service member is away, I'll throw in some ideas on how to make yourself feel special!
Wartime Valentine's Day History
First a quick history of what a typical Valentine's Day looked like in the 1940's. Much like today, American's loved an excuse to celebrate romance. Valentine's Day in the 1940's was celebrated with community parties, decorations, heart shaped boxes of chocolates and cookies, and sweet intricate Valentine's Day cards. Since it was wartime, most sweethearts spent the holiday apart. But that didn't stop couples from celebrating! Women would often send their service members handmade Valentine's Day cards and photos. Women weren't the only ones sending sweet cards though, service members were also given the opportunity to send their sweethearts Valentine's from overseas. Not only that, but because phone calls were limited or not possible at all, love letters were the main form of communication for separated couples. On the home front many mamas would bake heart shaped cookies with their children to celebrate while also hanging paper garlands and other decorations in the home. Lucky service members would send their sweetheart back home real nylon stockings if they could get ahold of them. Americans during wartime were resilient and didn't let the war dampen their spirit. Wherever they were, they made sure to celebrate the joy of love.

This is an example of a WWII era Valentine's Day card.
1940's Valentine's Day Outfit Ideas
Fashion in the 1940's was practical yet feminine at the same time. There's something so beautiful about the fashion of that era and I've always been drawn to it for as long as I can remember. My bridal shower was even a 1940's/1950's housewife theme. If you're wanting to throw together a vintage 1940's inspired outfit there are a few things to keep in mind. Look for the classic Valentine's Day colors of red, burgundy, white, cream, and pinks. Styles like A-line skirts, peter pan collar blouses, tea dresses, cardigans, shirt dresses and floral patterns. You can also include 1940's style shoes like mary janes, peep toe pumps, wedge sling backs, oxfords, slip in pumps, sandals, saddle shoes, and espadrilles.
1940's Valentine's Day Beauty Ideas
If there's one thing that's iconic of the WWII 1940's era, it's the victory red lip. This was no different on Valentine's Day. The red lip was a must! Many beauty guides form the era encouraged women to outline their natural lip to create a nice full lip shape. Because most lipsticks were matte, vaseline was often added to create a bit of shine. Makeup in the 1940's was very simplistic compared to today's beauty trends. Women focused on nicely groomed arched eyebrows, red lips, subtle eyeliner, mascara, rouge, and pancake foundation powder. Rouge was sometimes difficult to find, so many women used their red lipstick on their cheeks as well. Red or pink tone nails in an oval or almond shape was also a staple. The half moon manicure was also very popular during the time.
On to the hair. You can't complete a classic 1940's look without those iconic pin curls. There are several setting patterns and ways of achieving pin curls. You can use the classic bobby pin method, pillow/rag ties, or foam rollers. Depending on what look you're looking for, there are also different setting patterns (or the direction the hair will fall when you remove the pins etc). One classic Valentine's Day hair do would be the victory rolls. Take your time and be patient. They can take a lot of practice. You can find so many helpful videos on YouTube for pin curls and victory rolls, as well as different 1940's hairstyles.
Wartime Valentine's Day Crafts & Food Ideas
Heart shaped boxes of chocolates were a common Valentine's Day gift during the 1940's. As were Valentine's Day cards. Most cards featured wartime designs, sweet kids or cartoons.
Cakes were also a popular center piece at parties. Here are two vintage cake recipes (one from 1948 and the other from 1949) that you can recreate for your vintage Valentine's Day!
Sweet Story Cake
Cake:
- 2 1/2 cups sifted cake flour
- 1 1/2 cups sugar
- 3 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
- 1 teaspoon salt
- 1/2 cup Spry (shortening)
- 3/4 cup milk
- 1/4 cup maraschino cherry juice
- 1 teaspoon vanilla
- 2 teaspoons almond extract
- 4 egg whites, unbeaten
- 18 maraschino cherries, well drained and finely chopped
- 1/2 cup walnuts, very finely chopped
Pink Valentine Frosting:
- 2 Tablespoons Spry (shortening)
- 2 Tablespoons butter
- 1 teaspoon vanilla
- 1/2 teaspoon almond extract
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 4 cups sifted confectioner's sugar
- 4 Tablespoons scalded cream
- red coloring
Directions
Cake:
- Sift flour, sugar, baking powder and salt into mixing bowl.
- Drop in Spry (shortening).
- Combine milk and maraschino juice. Add 3/4 cup of this liquid. Add flavoring extracts. Beat 200 strokes (2 minutes by hand or on mixer on low speed. Scrape bowl and spoon or beater.
- Add remaining liquid and egg whites and beat 200 strokes (2 minutes on mixer at low speed.)
- Add cherries and nuts and blend.
- Bake in 2 deep 9-inch Spry (shortening) coated layer pans in moderate oven (375ºF) 20-25 minutes.
- Cool. Cut layers into heart shapes, using paper pattern. Kids love the tasty trimmings. Spread with Pink Valentine Frosting. With a toothpick, outline a short Valentine message, such as "I love you." Fill in letters and outline edge of cake with silver dragees.
Pink Valentine Frosting:
- Combine Spry (shortening), butter, vanilla, almond and salt and blend. Beat in 1/2 cup sugar. Add hot cream, alternatively with remaining sugar, beating well after each addition. Add only enough cream to make a nice spreading consistency. Add a few drops of red coloring to tint frosting a delicate pink before spreading on cake.
Lonely Hearts
If you're like me and many of the wartime women from the 1940's, you might be spending this Valentine's Day separated from your sweetheart. No matter how many times I do this, it always breaks my heart a bit to be away from my best friend and soul mate. But, also like the women of the war torn 1940's, you don't have to let it get you down! Resilience is our middle name. Just because you can't spend time with your other half doesn't mean you can't celebrate your love and make the day special for yourself!
Here are some of my favorite ways to celebrate Valentine's Day when I'm alone.
- Write your sweetheart an old fashioned love letter. Don't forget to seal it with a kiss!
- Bake yourself a yummy Valentine's Day cake or heart shaped cookies.
- Watch old romantic movies (my favorite's from the 1940's are listed below).
- Treat yourself to your favorite take out.
- Make some old fashioned handmade Valentine's.
- Decorate with handmade paper chains and other decorations.
- Go for a leisurely stroll in nature (depending on where you live).
- Do an old fashioned pin up photoshoot for your sweetheart.
- Put a record on and cook yourself a nice dinner, eat it by candle light.


